I - a middle -aged woman who has been working in an office environment for more than 10 years.Perhaps, with many girls in this environment, I am just an unwilling individual.I am not highly qualified, not wide and (most likely) is not skillful in speaking.
However, I have lived long enough to master the so -called basic value of a normal person, including kindness and "know what" that is not sure if any good office people can understand.and do it.How contradictory!
I will tell you about the left side, about daily issues in the office environment that is normal but very non -marketing based on my experience and observation for more than a dozen years.
From the story of waiting for the elevator door: Never think other people must be obliged to help you!
First, I just want to remind that: in the company, no matter what position, new employees, old employees or docks, security, ... everyone is like everyone, everyone, they are, they areDo the same salary, so never think that someone must be obliged to help you.
And apologies, thank you very important, if you have not done it, do not expect others to love and support in everyday trivial or greater trifles on the way to advance.
The practical example that I am very common is that I clean the floors in the company, also often moving the elevator up and down.At that time, I was often signaled by company employees (especially women) waiting for the elevator door to go with them.
Of course, this is nothing worth mentioning if they don't make me wait too long, while they stand outside "eight" the story is unfinished with colleagues or sometimes adjusting the shoelaces or running back inThe toilet took the lipstick to forget just now, ...
I was not in a hurry, I was still waiting, but in the end I only received an indifferent attitude as an act of waiting for the elevator for the company's employees to be the obligations that I was forced to do.Without a thank you, no act of bowing.While I am, sometimes older than their parents.
Even once, because I could not press the button to wait for the door, the elevator kept closing.The next day I met the employee again, she threw me a glance as if to tear me out, as if I did something very sorry to her.I just laughed except.
The most sustainable relationship, in my opinion is the glass relationship
I mean here not necessarily ask people to respect me just because I am old, but the I haunts is a polite and "knowing" attitude of each individual.If you replace me with someone else, then the act of making others wait for the elevator door for too long, after finishing saying thank you is an extremely poor act of anywhere, not just the office environment.
As I said at first, please don't think that others must be obliged to help me in some case.What is the obligation here?People help me to love me or simply polite to me.In response to that, please start with thanks or apologize depending on the case.This is "know what" and the minimum skill of each individual.
Not only waiting for the elevator door, but in many other cases such as asking colleagues to get help, ask to buy orange water, ask the guards to take the car, ask your new staff to print documents to help... Every "thanks", you must know "thank you".
The most sustainable relationship, in my opinion is the glass relationship.Only when understanding how to recognize office workers will have a solid stepping stone on the path of career promotion.
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